Update .. and on my Helper-from-Hell
Friday, August 29, 2014
In case got people also dunno what a toilet brush is.
Day 2 Tuesday : The very next day, its my turn to supervise and guide my new helper on how to clean my room. Its not rocket science seriously.. Make a bed, sweep/mop the floor, wipe the tables and then wash the toilet. Something that E has done the day before. I told E to change bedsheets while I observe and guess how long she took to change my King's size bed with 4 pillows and one blanket. GUESS......
She took ONE HOUR AND 40 MINUTES (WITH MY HELP)
Im not kidding u......... Im not the most patient person I admit but this really took the cake. Almost 2 whole hours on one freaking bed where it usually takes the same amount of time to do the WHOLE room, including washing of toilet. Yes.. I understand that E is new. But you know why she took so long? BECOZ SHE WAS TRYING TO BRAINWASH ME TO GIVE HER MONEY.
I might look nice.. I might look young.. I might look stupid.. but hey I can smell a rat when someone tries to pull a fast one on me. Barely here for 2 days and asking me to give her money on her upcoming off day so that she can give offering to church???? WHICH CHURCH CALL U GIVE THEM MONEY BEFORE YOU EVEN EARN MONEYYYYY????? *insert church name ____ here*
I kept my composure (although I feel like screaming "Just fxxx-ing do the bed la!") and said to her calmly and as nonchalantly as possible, I told her to start working properly, get her pay after repaying her agent's loan then think about giving offering to church.
Btw, my one room + toilet took nearly 5 hours (with lunch inbetween) to finish that day. *facepalm*
Day 3 Wednesday : I wake up around 8ish-9am each day but the rest of family wakes up earlier (work etc) I usually finish my cup of coffee or a piece of bread by 10am latest and into the sink it goes. Im not the cleanest, or the most OCD person around but I took this picture (below) at 2.38pm and NONE OF THE CUPS & DISHES FROM BREAKFAST HAS BEEN WASHED.
Given that my in-laws have coffee at 8am.. and mine at 9-ish. These have been lying in the sink for 5 FREAKING HOURS??????? 3 cups??? 2 plates???? Like, seriously E????? U chose to ignore these for so long even though I saw u drinking/eating before I went out for lunch??????
Purposely one right.
Day 4 Thursday : Its a nice Thursday morning and as much I want to get on with my wonderful life .. I wake up only to hear my MIL in the living room sighing in exasperation. Soooo today, my wonderful and lovely helper decides that she doesnt remember how to wash toilets. AGAIN. New day.. new pattern I guess. E wants me to WRITE ALL THE TOILET WASHING INSTRUCTIONS down on paper for her so that she 'remember'. Off we troop to the toilet and start right from the beginning. I said it once and Im saying it again.. I might look stupid but dun ever treat me like an idiot. WHY SHOULD I WRITE INSTRUCTIONS FOR U? Later u say u dun understand what I write how. So why dun YOU wash the toilet and YOU write at the same time. Im a nice person, I volunteer to hold your notebook & pen for u. Practical and theory. Thats how we rocked in school didnt we? 2 lines later, my helper decides she can remember everything.
Day 5 Friday : Great. Its Clean-My-Room day again and Im definitely not looking forward to it. Im tired, totally not feeling well and all I wanted to do is to do away with all the drama, just get my room cleaned and lemme take a nap after lunch. But no... my amazing helper decides to go SLOW-MO on me and insists on taking a shower first even though I told her that she needs to wash my room's toilet today. (Like, dun you shower AFTER washing toilets?) But ok. Im part of a democratic society and based on justice and equality.. You wan go shower, you go shower. Shower did she........ for 45 minutes.
It was almost 2pm and I was feeling extremely sick that day so I didnt want to scold anyone. I just wanted E to do her job and clean my room so that I could get some rest. After afew days of housework I would think that my helper could work independently right? I mean, how difficult is sweeping the floor? Yes. I was WRONG. A big fat WRONG. Despite feeling unwell, I had to supervise the whole sweep/mop/make bed procedure again and once again my room alone took a good 3-4 hours to be done. We ended at around 6pm. My dream of napping went up in a smoke. By the way, I think some people can clean their WHOLE house in that time.
The night ended on a "great" note when I told E to have a good sleep becoz its her off day on Sunday and I reminded her not to do anything but to rest well.
"Off day also no use. Got no money." came the swift reply.
Day 7 Sunday : Ahhhh... Sunday. The day that I have been looking forward to coz its E's off day and she doesnt need to do housework = no problem. Rightttt..? Once again. I WAS WRONG! We have church on Sundays as hubby & I prepare to head off to church like any other day.. I walk into the living room with my in-laws shaking their head.
My most marvelous helper E decided to wake up early first thing in the morning and ask my MIL for MONEY. AGAIN.
Thats not all, arh.
After my MIL refused, E proceeded to put a sarong/cloth on the floor in front of her personal toilet and LIE DOWN ON THE FLOOR without washing up or brushing teeth.
Got so er xin people anot.......???????????????
We packed her off to our wonderful agent ASAP.
So yeah.
#StoryOfMyLife.
*Disclaimer : Everything I wrote here really happened. Actually I skipped so many parts coz I really didnt want to end up with high blood pressure myself.
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Writing all these out really made me feel BETTER! Hahaha! Yeah I was pretty frustrated in the beginning but I guess I've learnt to accept that shit happens. In fact Im thankful that it wasnt worse, so now when I look back at all the incidents, I can actually laugh it off with my hubby. Although I still roll my eyes at the lying infront of the toilet part. #TotallyWin.
Hope u have a great weekend, guys!
Off to catch up on my other upcoming posts. :)
6 comments
Oh my gosh..... that's worst than having a helper!!!!! So bad!! Hope you find a good one soon!!!!
ReplyDeleteGet an Indonesian one. I have changed at least 5 pinoys away in a span of 2 years before I decided that maybe Indonesians will be better and yes I was so right. My pinoy helpers old or young all had the same hp and bf and Sundays problem. My current Indonesian helper is god sent. Clean, tidy, neat, nice and steady. I say I like to eat indo food she quickly rack her brains to whip up nice dishes for me.
ReplyDeleteI hope you find the right one soon! Hehe
Hey dear I understand how you feel omg my helper (from Myanmar) also equally as horrible as yours. Been here for about a month now and she broke so many things without even apologizing or notifying us (play dumb and think we don't know). Worst of all, 1st week teach her all the basic chores already she still come act dumb and say she don't know how to do wtf. I think I do more chores than her lol. Maid these days, gosh. Don't know is come here to work or to purposely anger us Singaporeans.
ReplyDeleteOMG! I know how you feel!
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OMG. Yeah, I totally feel you man even though I didn't train nor hire maid myself. My boyfriend's family did and we have gone through SO MANY within a short period of time as well. Now, we all just give up and decided not to hire any more helpers but do ourselves instead. :/ Tough man! Hopefully, you'll find one soon that actually is of much help! :)
ReplyDeleteOMG... that was really bad. But I enjoy reading becos' you write so well...lol...!!
ReplyDeleteHope you get an angel next, fingers crossed !!!
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